Chemistry 101

I am not sure if I mentioned that hubby talked me into buying a science curriculum for our kids...to start this summer :O. He sat through the session that was given by Gravitas Publications- Real Science 4 Kids and was so excited about it that it was quite cute. It's hard not to be excited too when he is. So we decided that we would buy the first set and try it out this summer. I had wanted to start sooner this summer but found myself busy with other things. Finally, I decided that no time would seem like a good time and just dove in. (Great exercise in homeschool- gotta just do it!) The cool thing about it was that it didn't need to happen at a certain time. I just picked up the book and read the first chapter to the kids in the morning. It was a short chapter with few words and colorful illustrations. Then, after their naptime and before dinner, I did the little "experiment" that they had for them. I made E-pie her own little journal (paper stapled together) to record (draw) her observations and thinking while I recorded her words. By the end of the day, both kids could tell us that everything is made up of atoms. E-pie could tell us that things are different because they are made up of different atoms and that when you put atoms together, you make molecules!!! That felt pretty awesome. So we will continue with our lessons. I even wonder if we can take it on the road with us ;)

~ H

Happy Birthday Super C!!!

My little baby is now 3 years old. I cannot believe how fast he has grown and what a giant heart the Lord has blessed him with. A couple of months ago as his birthday was approaching, tornadoes tore through Alabama. Our hearts were heavy with the sadness this disaster had caused, but we were determined that we could do something to help. So as we thought about his birthday and what it could be, we were filled with excitement when we came up with the super hero theme.The theme was fitting and with some help from Puking Pastilles, Plum Pear Apple Designs Super Hero Capes, and Living Locurto, I put together my version of a super hero party!

The funny thing was that the weather was calling for isolated thunderstorms to start at the time of C-bear's party. At first, I worried and wondered if I should change venues. Then, I realized it was no use to worry. We prayed about it. We praised God that evening for keeping the rain away so everyone could have a good time and we had the ENTIRE park to ourselves! It felt like I had rented the place out for our own private use. The kids all had a blast running around in their costumes...C-bear, of course, would not wear his. The food my mom provided was a hit as usual. We raised over $300 to send to Alabama to help the victims of the tornado. All in all, a great day! Enjoy some of the pics from the event!

Talented hubby made an awesome detailed searchlight cake!

31 Easy No-Sew Capes :)

Someone is having a great time!

He is great at helping! :D

My best friend and her boyfriend, also my assistant photographer :)

My family :D

God Bless!

~ H

Decluttering

We've been reading Crazy Love by Francis Chan in our small group and absolutely LOVE it! The messages that Francis delivers to the reader is one that really forces us to examine ourselves and our relationship with our Creator. Some of the things he talks about is hard to confront and admit about ourselves, but he lays it all out there. The most recent chapter talks about God's love for us, how "He gave His best. He gave Himself." and "Jesus says the two greatest commands are 'love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind' and to 'love your neighbor as yourself'. And when He talks about our neighbors, He means the people that you don't get along with, the beggar in the street, the guy who cut you off in traffic, or the lady who gave you an attitude at the store- EVERYONE! So we like to go around saying how we love God and how we love Jesus, but are we showing our love to God when we don't show our love to everyone?

We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sister. If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion- how can God's love be in that person?...Let's not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. 1 John 3:16-18

So what does all this have to do with decluttering? I was getting to that part. Do we realize how rich we really are? We might not live in mansions or own yachts but when we look at how most of the people of the world are living...without clean water or enough food for a day, we are rich beyond compare. We lead comfortable lives and yet we worry and we want more and more. We have people all over the world, our neighbors, that live in deplorable and cramped homes and yet we aspire to move into bigger homes or rent storage buildings to hold more of our STUFF! And we strive to continue to accumulate more stuff. If you look at it that way, it all seems a little silly and senseless, don't you think? So...getting to the point...in our small group, we talked about all the stuff we own and how we seem to feel like we NEED to hold onto things for some reason or another. Awesome A told us of a community that she drives by everyday that looks like they could use some neighborly love. We've decided to set up a yard sale in that community in order to help them get things very inexpensively, speak to them about God's love, and to donate ALL the money to charity. So that's where the decluttering comes in. That's what we are doing in our homes. We are all very excited about this opportunity and in showing our children what God means by loving our neighbors.

If you would like to contribute items to our yard sale, let me know. We will be having it on Sunday, May 22nd, if you want to get it to me before then. Another little golden nugget of advice I learned from the homeschooling conference: Less Things = More Time. So if you declutter your home and have less things in your home to bog you down, you free up more time for other important things. ;)

~H

Homeschool Highs

Hubby and I were fortunate enough to attend our very first homeschooling conference this past weekend, and it was AWESOME! I know I am still on a high from all the wonderful things that I’ve heard and learned. It was truly inspirational and further convicting to us why we feel that this is the best choice for our family. We got to hear Ken Ham and Voddie Bauchman speak and they are both truly gifted speakers. I just cannot believe that some truths are not taught in our schools and that theories are being taught as facts...anyhow, I digress. But if you want to learn more about it, you can read more about Ken and his mission at http://www.answersingenesis.org/
It can really shake the foundation of science on which you and I were taught. I really felt God by my side as I experienced the conference. It can get overwhelming at times when you are presented with so much information and stuff but I believed that God would lead me in the right direction. Even now, I am at peace with the idea of homeschooling and feel ready to start even though I still haven’t gotten all my ducks in a row...don’t know that I ever will. This phrase shared by Vicki Bentley at the conference will stay with me, “My home is clean enough to be healthy and messy enough to be happy.” I didn’t get to listen to Todd Wilson speak in person, but I did get his CD of the session and it is titled “Lies all homeschoolers believe”. I think it should be titled, “Lies all parents believe”. In fact, most of the sessions at the conference, I felt should be heard by parents everywhere, not just homeschooling parents, because we all want to raise children in a way that trains them for life and to raise Godly children. Todd Wilson has a great and humorous website that is geared towards Dads but I’ve enjoyed reading it, too. http://www.familymanweb.com/ I signed hubby up for the weekly newsletter. Don’t worry. I told hubby about it...after the fact.

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6

I am just so pumped about it all. Someone at the conference told us how she asked her young child (the oldest of 3, I think) one day whether he wanted to take a nap or learn to read. Well, he chose to learn to read, and she got to snuggle with him and teach him how to read while the others napped. I tried that and it worked! I asked E-pie (who doesn’t like to nap even though she could) the same question and guess what she picked? So, we sat down on the couch for about 30 minutes to learn how to read. We first used Boggle Jr. to build some -at words by sounding it out. At first, E-pie would remove all the letter tiles after she built a word and build the next -at word from scratch. Then, she got to the point where she realized that the A and T stayed and only the first letter changed. Then, we read 2 BOB books about Mat and Sam. She struggled at first because she wanted to remember their names instead of sounding it out when she forgot but with a little pep talk and hugs, she was able to do it. You should have seen her face when I told her she read a book ALL BY HERSELF!!! I was so happy for her but also felt like it was a victory for me.

Happy Easter!

"God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son." ~ John 3:16


We hope that everyone had a great Easter. We definitely are blessed to have such good friends and family to share this special time with. 

21 days to change a habit

I've been reading this great book called Creative Corrections by Lisa Whelchel. She talks about different ways we can correct and train up our kids that are well...creative. It takes 21 days to change a habit. We are trying this method with C-bear. We don't want to force him to stop sucking his thumb...it's kind of hard to constantly observe since he only does it while he is sleeping...when we are sleeping ;) It has to be a choice that he chooses to make on his own. So we told him if he could stop sucking his thumb for 21 days, he could go to the toy store and pick out a toy. I don't think it really had an effect on him until we actually took him to the toy store to look around. I kept reminding him of what he needed to do if he picked up a toy that he really liked. Well, when he took his nap that day, he fell asleep without his thumb. I know this because I was watching him as he fell asleep in his car seat while we were parked outside waiting for E-pie to finish her ballet lessons. He had his little Mr. Lion, his lovey for automatic thumb-sucking. He played for awhile with his pants before gazing out his window and falling asleep. I did give him a small instant reward when he got up for not sucking his thumb. I figured 21 days is a long time to wait to get your reward for a little 2 year old. Then, at bedtime, he asked if we could go to the toy store if he didn't suck his thumb. Hubby and I agreed that we would reward him with a trip to the toy store at 14 days if he didn't suck his thumb...but the kicker is it has to be consecutively. If he forgets, we start over. But we'll probably reward him again at 21 days, too. We'll see how it works.

Well, when I was woken up by my daughter this morning at 5:15am (she came and sat in our room) and then again at 6am (she came back). I sent her back to her room to lay down until 7ish. I thought that I should probably get up. I have been trying to work on getting up earlier...like before my children and maybe even my hubby but it's so hard because I LOVE to sleep! I have never been a morning person but I know I need to change that if I am to homeschool because I want to start our day off with me ready for the day, not dragging my groggy rear out of bed because my kids are already up. That is not the way I want to homeschool. So then I thought of C-bear's plan to break a habit and thought maybe I needed this, too. If I slip up and choose to sleep, I start over but I actually do it for 21 days. We'll see if it is true. So here it goes.

We are also using her Sad Jar and Happy Jar idea with the kids to make good choices.
I am really enjoying her book :)



~ H

We love because He first loved us.

‎We love because He first loved us. 1 John 4:19
(Thanks to my sweet sister-in-law for the idea for the title of this post.)


It's been awhile since I have updated this blog or shared any pictures on any social network. But Valentine's day (or the day after) is a great time to share the love. My husband and I didn't  plan on going out to celebrate our love of almost 15 years at a busy restaurant. Instead, we were invited to our church class mentor's home for dinner. C and G are a generation older and wiser than us. At first, the idea of being served dinner alongside our peers wanting to get an evening out and it not costing us a dime was what sparked my interest. C and G turned their home into place of romance for each couple that attended. They had tables for 2 set up in different areas around their house so that each couple could enjoy an intimate dinner together. They adorn the table with their fine china, candles were lit, fireplaces were blazing, and soft music in the background. The ambiance was just so perfect. C and G started to serve us, bringing out drinks, salads, steak. It was actually hard to sit there and have them serve us. In my culture, we serve our elders. We don't get served by them. I just wanted them to sit down and eat with us. They hadn't even eaten dinner yet! C and G told us repeatedly that they wanted to do this for us. We needed this as a couple- an intimate dinner together without interruptions. C shared with us afterwards how another older couple had done it for them when they were where we are now. Kurt and I are reminded of the scripture in John 13:1-7 about how Jesus washed his disciples feet and it was hard for them to let Him do it for them. But this was to teach us that  we need to serve one another. I know we will remember it for the rest of our lives and we hope that we can do this for others in the future. It was so wonderful to celebrate Valentine's day with our  sweet friends. I just feel so blessed that the Lord has placed such special people in our lives to show us His love. I hope everyone had a Happy Valentine's Day because Jesus loves you so much!

~H